dumb woman at doctor's

so i'm at the doctor today with my three kids...always a joy. and i look over and i see this trixie all dressed to the nine's with her one child run arounding hitting people, and her little three month old baby in a car seat with a bottle propped up on a blanket. THE BOTTLE IS PROPPED UP ON A BLANKET! the baby is twitching and gasping trying to get the bottle into her mouth correctly. what's the trixie doing? sitting with her head in her hands watching people and i'm sure assuming we're all looking at her! i wanted to shake the gigantic big weave out of her! PICK UP YOUR BABY! LOVE YOUR BABY! CUDDLE YOUR BABY! and for goodness sake, feed that child!!!! oh my land...i was livid. and at a doctor's office no less. shouldn't a nurse tell the off beat mother that this borders on neglect?! blah....